I had occasion to be sitting in my pick-up at a cemetery recently. I
sat gazing across the manicured lawns and the acres of monuments and
tombstones erected to honor the dead. Some of the monuments were
sculpted wonders; some were simple slabs whose letters and dates had
faded in the wind and rain of the ages. As I always do in a place like
this, I thought of those who rested here, and those who cared enough to
mark the place where life had ended.
I thought of all
the different cultures in the world, and how each one has their own way
of honoring the dead. In all the many ways, traditions of burial rites,
it is a way of saying goodbye to those who are passing and making a
place of remembrance for the living. All over the world, cultures seem
to have a way of saying, "Gone, but not forgotten". As I was lost in
these thoughts, I noticed across the way, a car driving up a lane fifty
yards or so from where I was sitting.
The car moved
slowly up the lane, then stopped next to the flag pole where the Stars
and Stripes were waving gently in the breeze. I was out of view. After a
few seconds an old man who looked to be in his nineties exited slowly
and a bit unsteadily from the car. He stood next to the car, holding to
the door and gazing at the flag. It was then that I noticed that the
flag was a bit worn. He stood for half a minute or so, then reached
inside the car and removed a box. He closed the door and shuffled to the
hood of the car, laid the box there, and opened it.
After
opening the box, the old man turned to the flag again. He squared
himself up to attention, and raised a hand salute. He lowered his
salute then and moved to the flagpole. He loosened the chains and slowly
and reverently lowered the flag. After removing the flag, he folded it
and laid it aside. He then removed a new flag from the box, unfolded it,
and placed it on the chain. Once the flag was secure he quickly raised
it to the top, then ever so slowly lowered it to half-mast. I remembered
then that the American flag had been ordered to half-mast by President
Trump to honor the passing of President George H.W. Bush. Forty One had
been my Commander and Chief during Desert Shield/Storm.
Once
the flag was secured at half-mast the old man stepped back, squared up
again, and hand saluted Old Glory for several seconds. He then slowly,
almost in Honor Guard fashion, lowered his salute and came to parade
rest.
As an old soldier myself, his posture and
reverence toward that flag suggested to me that this was an old soldier
from an earlier time. World War II or Korea? The slow lowering and rapid
raising, the hand salutes, these were proper flag protocol.
The
old soldier stood after his salute and just looked at the ground below
the flag for a few minutes. I wondered if he was remembering those who
had fallen; friends and family perhaps. Maybe he was praying for those
gone on. Perhaps he said a prayer for the country he obviously loved.
Whatever his thoughts were in that few silent moments, it was silent
reverence I beheld...and it was humbling to watch.
After
gathering the box from the hood and placing it in the car, the old
soldier prepared to enter the auto, but with one foot inside, he stopped
and looked once more at the red, white, and blue symbol of the greatest
country on earth. Then he eased himself (painfully, I thought) into the
vehicle.
As he drove away I found myself saying aloud,
"Thank you sir, for your service". I was thankful for the respect and
honor shown to our flag. I was thankful for all those who have fought to
keep America free. I was thankful for citizens of this great country
who still have a sense of respect, duty, and honor.
He never saw me, that old soldier, but I saw him. His actions moved me.
I
wondered if he'd ever raise that flag again. I wondered who would take
his place. I wondered, when the time comes, if it should be me.
K L Dennie
Jan 2019